How to Write a Maid of Honor Speech for Your Sister (with Easy Steps & an Example)
Hey, friend!
Tell me if this sounds like you…
You’re the Sister of the Bride, you have a ton of great stories about your sister, but zero idea which ones to include in your wedding speech.
Deep breaths—I’ve got you!
Writing a heartfelt, funny, and memorable Sister of the Bride speech doesn’t have to be overwhelming.
Here’s my simple 3-step process to help you get started.
STEP 1.) BRAINSTORM FAVORITE MEMORIES
It’s totally normal to feel stuck when staring at a blank page, but the best way to get unstuck is to start brainstorming—what us writers like to call a “word vomit” session.
That means you’re going to write down everything that comes to mind about your sister and the life you two have shared together.
Don’t worry about polishing it yet—just jot down raw, unfiltered thoughts.
Bullet points are perfect for this exercise!
Pro tip: Put your phone on “Do Not Disturb” and set a timer for 15–30 minutes.
Ask yourself questions like:
What is your favorite memory with your sister?
How has the Bride positively impacted your life?
Why are you proud of her?
Why do you know she’ll make a great wife?
Once you’ve filled the page with memories, move on to Step 2.
STEP 2.) IDENTIFY A THEME
Now comes the fun part: looking through your notes and finding the theme.
Ask yourself: which character trait stands out the most about your sister?
Is she loyal, adventurous, generous, hilarious, optimistic, or maybe all of the above?
Choose one that feels the most true to her.
Then, pick the story from your brainstorming that best illustrates that trait.
This story will become the heart of your Sister of the Bride speech.
STEP 3.) TIE IT INTO MARRIAGE
Finally, connect your theme to your sister’s marriage. Show the Groom (and the guests) how her strongest qualities will make her an amazing wife and partner.
Example of a Sister of the Bride Speech
I once worked with a Maid of Honor named Lindsey, whose best friend Michelle was like a sister to her.
They traveled the world together, and many of Lindsey’s funniest and most heartfelt stories came from their adventures.
One time in Thailand, they went scuba diving—but a sudden storm rolled in.
What could have been a terrifying experience turned into an unforgettable memory because Michelle stayed positive and adventurous through it all.
“Michelle still made it fun because of her positive attitude,” Lindsey told me.
That story became the perfect conclusion for Lindsey’s speech.
Here’s what Lindsey said to the groom:
“We all know life is hard, but just know that when the storms come and the waves crash overhead, Michelle will be right by your side, reminding you to just keep swimming.”
This not only honored Michelle’s personality but also tied beautifully into the couple’s future together.
READY TO WRITE YOUR OWN SISTER OF THE BRIDE SPEECH?
I hope these steps give you clarity and confidence!
To make it even easier, I created a free resource: How to Structure Your Maid of Honor Speech in 5 Easy Steps.
It’s the perfect roadmap to turn your stories into a heartfelt speech that feels authentic, organized, and unforgettable.
👉 Grab your free guide here and start writing a Sister of the Bride speech you’ll feel proud to give.
Or, if you’d rather get personalized help…
💻 Book a free video call with me to chat through your ideas and explore my custom speech-writing options.
We’ll brainstorm together, refine your message, and make sure your words sound exactly like you.
“I recently reached out to Amanda to review my Maid of Honor speech at the last minute. My sister means the world to me, and I wanted to make sure my words truly reflected our unique bond and the countless memories we've shared. People were crying both during the speech and after. I would book Amanda again in a heartbeat for any future speeches or writing needs—her expertise and unbiased perspective are truly invaluable!”
— Zohreh Saher
