Is Hiring a Professional Wedding Vow Writer “Cheating”? Here’s the Truth.

Hey friend,

Planning a wedding is no joke.

Between managing guest lists, dress fittings, and (let’s be honest) a few strong family opinions—I know you’ve got a lot on your plate.

And now you’re expected to write the most meaningful words of your life?

Girl, I can already feel the tension in your shoulders.

I hear this from overwhelmed brides all the time:

💬 “I know what I want to say—I just don’t know how to say it.”
💬 “I’ve got pregnancy brain. I can barely form a sentence.”
💬 “Wedding planning has officially melted my brain.”
💬 “I’m just not a writer, but I want my vows to mean something.”
💬 “I don’t want my vows to sound cheesy or like I stole them from Pinterest.”

If that sounds like you, friend—you are not alone.

💡 “But isn’t hiring a professional vow writer cheating?”

This question comes up all the time. And honestly? I love when it does.

Because it means you care deeply about getting your vows right.

So let’s clear this up once and for all:

Hiring a professional vow writer isn’t cheating.

Instead, it’s:

Thoughtful.

Intentional.

And it’s one of the best gifts you can give yourself—and your marriage.

Think about it this way—you’re already hiring professionals to capture your photos, design your flowers, bake your cake, and style your hair.

Not because you can’t do those things, but because you know the value of having someone help bring your vision to life.

Hiring a professional vow writer is no different.

You’re still the heart and voice behind your vows—I just help you shape the words so they flow clearly, beautifully, and authentically.

Just like a wedding photographer captures your love through images, I help you capture it through words.

Because your wedding vows were never meant for just one day.

They’re meant to steady you on the hard days of marriage—to remind you what’s true and what matters most when life gets heavy.

Your vows become an anchor when distractions, obligations, and struggles try to pull your marriage in different directions.

✨ Your Wedding Vows Aren’t a Writing Test

Your vows aren’t about proving how poetic you can be.

They’re about expressing your heart — the promises you’re making and the kind of love you’ve built together.

Writing vows isn’t about finding the perfect words; it’s about finding the right ones.

The kind that will still speak truth into your marriage 5 years, 10 years, even 50 years down the road.

If putting that into words feels overwhelming, that’s where I come in. 💕

Hi there! I’m Amanda — a professional wedding vow writer (and yes, I wrote my own vows, too!).

And here’s the part I’m most proud of: I still love my wedding vows.

I’ve been married since 2019, and the words I wrote back then still hold true today.

They continue to guide me, encourage me, and remind me why I said “I do” in the first place.

Now, I help overwhelmed brides like you turn those scrambled thoughts into clear, beautiful, heartfelt words you’ll be proud to say in front of the people who matter most.

You won’t get cookie-cutter vows.

You’ll get something that sounds like you—just the best, most confident version of you.

Together, we’ll:

💛 Walk through the process side by side
💛 Untangle your thoughts and emotions
💛 Shape them into vows that feel meaningful, personal, and true to you

So when you stand at the altar, you’ll speak words that feel grounded, confident, and completely your own.

🕊 Ready to Take the Next Step?

If you’re ready to say something unforgettable on your wedding day—without the stress of writing it all yourself—I can help you get there.

Whether you want a little structure, full support, or something in between, here are three ways we can make it happen:

✨ Option 1: Grab the Free Wedding Vow Guide

If you’re just getting started, this is the perfect first step.

Download my free resource ➡️ “How to Structure Your Wedding Vows in 5 Easy Steps.”

It’s a simple, easy-to-follow format that shows you exactly how to structure your wedding vows — the same framework I use with my own clients.

📘 Option 2: Purchase The Ultimate Wedding Vow Writing Workbook

Want to go deeper?

➡️ The Ultimate Wedding Vow Writing Workbook walks you through everything — from uncovering your love story to writing your final draft.

It’s a digital download filled with helpful prompts, real examples, and expert tips — even how to use ChatGPT to your advantage when editing your vows — so you can write something heartfelt and organized at your own pace.

💛 Option 3: Work One-on-One With Me

If you’d rather skip the overwhelm altogether, let’s work together!

In my Custom Vow Writing Service, I’ll take your ideas, stories, and emotions and craft vows that are beautifully written and completely true to your voice.

We’ll meet over a short video call, brainstorm your story, and bring your words to life.