What Should a Mother of the Groom Say in her Wedding Speech?
Are you a mother whose son recently got engaged?
First of all—congratulations!
I bet you’re feeling a mix of joy, excitement, and maybe a little nervousness as you step into this new season.
It’s a big moment—not just for your son, but for you, too.
While the Mother of the Groom isn’t always expected to give a speech at the wedding reception, many moms choose to say a few words at the rehearsal dinner, especially if you’re helping host it.
And when that time comes, it’s natural to wonder: What should I say? How do I say it well?
Here are 4 thoughtful prompts to help you start brainstorming content for a short, heartfelt speech:
1.) SON’S GROWTH
Look back on your son’s life—the joyful memories and even the challenges.
How has he grown and matured?
What qualities make you most proud to be his mom?
2.) POSITIVE CHANGES
What was he like before he met his bride—and how has she made his life better?
Has he become more confident?
Calmer?
More joyful?
Reflect on how she brings out the best in him.
3.) LOOKING FORWARD
Why do they make such a great match?
What gives you hope about their future together?
Why do you think their marriage will make the world a better place?
4.) A WORD OF WISDOM
Lastly, if you could give them one piece of advice about love, partnership, or family, what would it be?
Share something meaningful—whether funny, heartfelt, or wise—that you’ve learned through experience.
5.) (Bonus Tip) WORK WITH A PROFESSIONAL
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