Using AI to Write Your Wedding Vows? Here’s How to Keep the Human Touch
Hey friend!
Let’s be real—AI is everywhere right now.
From writing clear, concise emails to planning diet-specific grocery lists, it feels like there’s a tool for everything.
So it’s no surprise that brides and grooms are starting to use AI to help them write their wedding vows, too.
And listen, I get it. (I use AI, too—and honestly, I love it. No hate here.)
AI can help you brainstorm ideas, polish sentences, and even give you structure when you’re stuck staring at a blank page.
But here’s the truth:
AI isn’t human.
Which means it can’t know your heart.
And it certainly doesn’t know what it’s like to be married.
Wedding vows aren’t just words that sound nice for one day—though yes, they should sound beautiful at the altar.
They’re also promises meant to carry you through the hardest days of marriage.
That takes more than a pretty sentence.
It takes expertise and a human touch.
Why You Still Need a Human Touch
Sure, AI might help you write something “good enough,” but your vows deserve better than generic.
You also want a professional wedding vow writer who’s been married, who understands the weight and beauty of those promises, and who can help you turn your love story into vows that last.
Someone who can tell you:
Yes, these words will sound beautiful at the altar.
And yes, these words will matter even more when you’re in the middle of a hard season of marriage.
That’s why hiring a wedding vow writer (👋 hi, that’s me!) can make such a difference.
My name is Amanda and I bring expertise and lived experience to make sure your wedding vows are more than surface-level.
But—I’ll be the first to admit—not everyone has the budget for hiring a professional vow writer, especially if you’re just weeks away from your big day.
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Bride on a Budget? I’ve Got You.
If you’re looking for a more affordable option, I created something just for you: The Ultimate Wedding Vow Writing Workbook.
This workbook is a step-by-step guide that makes vow writing feel doable instead of overwhelming.
And yes—you can totally pair it with AI (like ChatGPT) for editing or fine-tuning, but you’ll be starting with a foundation that’s actually yours.
I used the workbook and had a great experience writing my vows. They are all complete and I could not be more happier with how they came out. They are playful, romantic and so loving all at the same time. I can’t wait to say them to my future husband in October. I also utilized ChatGPT combined with [this] workbook and it was the perfect match! Thank you so much again!
~Rianna Testani
